The Silicon Valley etiquette crisis just got real. Slow Ventures hosted a three-hour 'Finishing School' this week at San Francisco's Four Seasons, teaching 50 tech founders everything from proper handshakes to caviar protocol. The twist? Hundreds applied for what started as a joke, revealing how desperately the industry wants to shed its 'feral' reputation as tech faces mounting public scrutiny.
What started as a Silicon Valley inside joke just became the most telling story about tech's identity crisis. Slow Ventures turned their tongue-in-cheek 'Finishing School' concept into reality this week, hosting 50 founders at San Francisco's Four Seasons for lessons in being less, well, feral.
The demand was staggering - hundreds of founders applied for the free program after Slow Ventures floated the idea at Y Combinator's Demo Day. That overwhelming response reveals something deeper than Silicon Valley's notorious social awkwardness. It shows an industry desperate to reinvent itself as tech companies face unprecedented scrutiny over job displacement, privacy violations, and cultural influence.
'Tech is no longer playful and cute,' Slow Ventures general partner Sam Lessin told the audience, according to The San Francisco Standard's coverage. 'It's taking people's jobs and changing environments. Everyone's threatened by it, which means you need to be like, 'I'm here and respectful,' as opposed to 'I'm here and intentionally disrespectful.'
The three-hour curriculum read like a parody of corporate America - perfect handshakes, public speaking techniques, office decorum. There was even a fashion show featuring models demonstrating appropriate attire for different business occasions, followed by lessons on caviar and wine appreciation. One unnamed founder captured the mood perfectly, telling The Standard they attended to learn how to be 'less feral.'
But not everyone's buying into the charm offensive. Y Combinator CEO Garry Tan reportedly advised founders to skip the event entirely. Later, Tan clarified on X that while he has 'no beef with Slow Ventures,' his philosophy remains unchanged: 'You don't need finishing school. You need to build something great, make your users happy, and have craftsmanship.'
The divide reflects a broader tension in Silicon Valley about how to navigate tech's maturation from scrappy startup culture to global corporate power. The predominantly male attendee list speaks to another industry challenge - diversifying leadership while maintaining the innovation edge that built these companies.
